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If you look back as far as even ten years ago (or even my wedding day in 2010), you will see how much traditional wedding trends have changed. Millennials are taking matters into their own hands and putting a modern twist on how they step into forever with their significant other and we applaud them. Below are just a few of the modern day wedding trends we are seeing couples embrace.

Just look at how happy this modern couple is!

Shopping for engagement rings together

What used to be one partner taking the lead in popping the question as the other dropped subtle hints has now pivoted to couples making it an outing and choosing the ideal engagement ring together.

According to a recent study, one third of couples browse for ring styles together. Some even end up splitting the bill. This could be because the average spend on engagement rings has gone up twenty-five percent from 2011. While the average time spent looking for a ring can go on for around three and a half months. Not to mention, couples have said that they looked at an average of twenty-six rings before deciding on the one. So maybe joining forces to get a little extra help from your significant other isn’t just a bonding experience, but a time and money saver as well!

The “First Look”

Although it is far from traditional, couples are opting to see each other before the ceremony. We call this the “first look” in the wedding world. I am a fan! To me, there is something so exciting about that moment you tap your soon to be husband or wife on the back. It is a little secret you share. Believe it or not, the tradition started during the time of arranged marriages. I think we are all more modern than that today!

Wedding Venue vs. Church

Another modern day wedding trend that has become more and more common is nixing a traditional church ceremony. In 2016, only twenty-six percent of couples had their wedding ceremony in a religious establishment proving that the majority of marriage ceremonies were taken place at the venue or elsewhere.

There are a number of reasons why this is becoming the new trend. One being that the ceremony and the reception can be held in the same location. This makes things convenient and straightforward for your guests, meaning fewer people getting lost (yes, this happens). In addition to the convenience factor, having your ceremony at the venue allows you to choose who you’d like to perform the ceremony as well as decorate the space the way you’d prefer. Traditional churches, unfortunately, have some barriers when it comes to accommodating your specific needs.

Renting Attire Online vs. Buying In Store

It used to be customary to go in to your local tuxedo and bridal shops to rent/buy your wedding party attire. Now, the more modern day approach is to go online and rent from companies such as The Black Tux for your wedding tuxedos and Azazie for your bridal party selections.

Couples find it more convenient to rent this way rather than go in store. Not too mention, your bridal party is scattered across the US or the world. It seems as time goes on, that renting online will be the more efficient way to obtain your wedding day apparel. Plus there are great options. Just don’t wait too long to order or try on before the day.

Photography: Christina Lilly Photography

Florals: Devon & Pinkett

Tent: Sperry Tents

Planning & Design: Gilded Lily Events

Pick which “style” beach wedding most speaks to you.

You may not have even considered this before, but there are different styles of “beach”. It might mean something different to you depending on where you live. Living on the eastern shores of New Jersey, we have 130 miles of coastline spanning from Sandy Hook to Cape May. Each with their own unique landscapes, quaint towns and scenic views. However for some people, your beach style may mean bright sunset colors and palm trees. Before diving into how to design a chic beach inspired wedding, choose which style fits your vision. Stay true to the kind of elements you would find on that beach and it will come together seamlessly.

Set the tone with your invitation.

One of the best ways you can share your vision and communicate your beach wedding to your guests is through the invitation. Whether you choose to be literal in your design by incorporating shells or landscapes or more abstract by incorporating watercolor elements of the sky and sea, your guests will be excited to see the design come together. It is also true that you invitation dictates to your guests the level of formality of the event, so keep that in mind as you incorporate your beach theme.

Be inspired by the colors of the sea and sky.

For any wedding design, it is wise to be inspired by your surroundings. Beach weddings should be inspired by the myriad of colors found in the sea, sand and sky. Shades of blue and grey read coastal weddings effortlessly and are so chic. They can be traditional, modern, fun and classic all at the same time.

Use shells and other beach-inspired decor unexpectedly.

In order to create a chic beach wedding, try to incorporate the materials from the beach in unexpected ways. Seashells with calligraphy for table numbers, mussel shell salt cellars, oyster shell candles, and sea-glass inspired details. Beach weddings take on a more sophisticated approach when the details are understated and unique.

Incorporate natural elements.

Mixing different natural elements will make sure your beach wedding design is grounded and feels relaxed. Using rocks, sand, textured linens and shells details is a great way to bring a beach vibe into your wedding regardless of your surroundings.

Encourage a laid-back atmosphere.

When you think of the beach, you immediately conjure relaxation and putting your feet up. Within your wedding design, incorporate lounge areas that invite your guests to sit and relax awhile. Whether they are on the water or just sea “inspired”, remember those natural elements and your color palette for a cohesive coastal look.

Serve summery treats.

Summer is full of the most delicious fruits, produce, sweet treats and of course cocktails. Serve your favorite summer treats during your wedding to remind your guests of a day at the beach. Whether it is a signature cocktail, succulent watermelon skewers or a good old fashioned ice cream truck. Make the food and drink part of the decor!

Keep your flowers unfussy.

Summer is all about the easy breezy lifestyle. That “just picked” or “just threw this on” way of life. Keep your flowers in the same vein. Using just one type of flower, large bundles of fluffy hydrangea, sea grasses or a wild flower bouquet all remind us of being at the beach. Simple, classic and easy is the way to go when it comes to your seaside flowers.

Dress appropriately.

Just as the invitation and your flowers evoke the laid-back coastal vibe, remember that your attire should also be in tune with your beach atmosphere you want to create. Easy wedge shoes and lightweight dresses in the color palette work really well on the waterfront.